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Knocked Up at 41

I turn 41 in a few weeks. DH is coming up to 45. This will be my first. Been TTC for 11 months but spent the first few months trying around the wrong times and generally being ignorant. I was operating on decades old info and old wives tales. Re-educated myself and started charting and using OPK’s and cervix position, CM monitoring.
Symptoms:
1-7 DPO nothing but boobs feel heavier than usual this luteal phase.
8DPO – a small amount of brown/pink cm accompanied by the usual self-doubt, so I disregard it.
9 and 10DPO – High, nervous energy like adrenalin resulting in numerous trips to the bathroom for numero 2’s. Also a few twinges in vaginal area.
11 DPO – Nothing, nothing, NOTHING.
12 DPO – Hello vaginal cramps, nice to hear from you again.
13DPO – Awake early and turning on my side activate an intense 1 sec cramp in lower belly. Fed up with the ambiguities I take a cheapie test (Innovacon). Nothing but wait…is that a line? I take a shower, check the test again. Yup it IS a very faint but colored line and even sleepy DH can see it too when I shove it in his face. Cautiously, we congratulate ourselves and I swear not to obsess until the blood test proves otherwise. How mature of me.
14DPO – I am obsessing beyond belief. I wake up every 2 hrs and think about the test. I dream about a test that is neg but upon throwing in the bin I see that it is positive. I get up and take a Clearblue Early-HPT. It takes a full 5 mins to see anything but the second line comes up and is faint but clear. I high five my DH and we act like this is a piece of cake as though to ward off the underlying worry about chemical pregnancies.
I have no twinges or cramps or sore boobs today (14DPO as I write) but I definitely feel pregnant, constant tiredness behind the eyes and my boobies are definitely heavier or something.
Like many people on this site – I started to believe the two pink lines would never show; that I missed out by meeting the right man too late in life; that I had too much wine and ciggies in my past etc and so forth. I didn’t think I’d be the type to get an early result and didn’t think I’d be the type to see implantation spotting. But check me out – we did it, just hope the beloved bean sticks. Best to you all. 

Comments

Fun to read this in what is a typically stressful time!! Congrats and good luck on the best thing that is about to happen to you and your hub.

Loved reading this! you sure do have a sense of humor! Congrats to you!! **sticky bean dust***

Thanks for sharing your story.  Many prayers your way for a healthy and happy 9 months:)  Now send some baby dust my way:)

Thanks for sharing your story.  Many prayers your way for a healthy and happy 9 months:)  Now send some baby dust my way:)

Baby Dust sent and thank you for all your kind words people!

I can only imagine how happy you are. It sounds like you both waited a long time for this!

Hey there, thanks so much for sharing!! Loved your post. A HUGE congrats to you guys.

I'm 40 and have been TTC for a long time. Your story gave me hope today... I test in 4 days <gritting teeth>. I think they should sell bite guards next to the pregnancy tests!

Best wishes :)

 

 

 

Loved reading your post, mirror image of myself. I'm 39 and ttc #1. Like you was late in life before I finally met my soul mate and now that I have, we are trying. Came off bc in feb and now trying 5 months. Was worried about my age but now you have given me alot of new confidence in conceiving and many tips. Best of luck xxx

I understand...thought i screwed up too by waiting for the right man and marriage at 38. Just got my BFP (no drugs or anything, just used the smiley face OPKs) on sat and will be a couple weeks into my 40th when the baby is due. Be proud that you waited for the right man, we can literally do it all these days plus there is always the help of science (IVF) if need be. THat is my plan for #2 if i run into problems. GOod luck to you!!

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