06/17/2008 10:19:41

Yeah I know abou the stress factor thing....I keep trying not to stress out but its soooo hard. I don't know about you but for me I find it difficult just to enjoy being with my bf, when we're in bed together the only thing wizzing round my brain is oooh maybe this time, baby, baby, baby not very sexy for my bf. That's why I try to keep alot to myself, don't want him to get effected by my stress, if he feels under pressure then I can totally forget it, if you get what I mean. I'm so glad I found this website!As for you, there is no harm in hanging onto hopes, you never know you might of tested to soon. It could indeed be just the fact that the HCG hormone hasn't risen enough yet....

  I'll keep baby chanting for you to chase away AF!It'skilling waiting though, especially when you think you are, I hate those doubts and I hate the not knowing. Lets face it, did you believe your BFN....I know I didn't not until AF came along, I just thought "stupid HPT thing, you're crap and don't work!" LOLTry not to drive yourself too nutty with it, hang in there!

Keep me posted as i'm on tender hooks here, I might be REALLY far away but i'm right here with you waiting for that BFP!

Take care!

06/17/2008 07:54:23

Youare so right, when you're with the right person then you just know....but there are always some with their ready opinion. I tend to take no notice but sometimes its annoying to hear there opinion.

I have to say that I am kind of getting to the point of maybe I should give it all a rest for a while. I think i'm ahead of you cause this time just gone I really was heading for the funny farm lol  I'm driving myself nuts almost every month and I to try to hide most of it from bf don't want to eventually drive him insane to. I think I will try the BBT then give it a rest for now at least. We're also trying to set up a buisness together so I really should be concentrating on that. I mean that will give us and our future family a great start in life......its just hard letting go of trying so hard!Maybe if I can let go a little that's when it will happen....

 

06/17/2008 05:38:13

I'm fine thanks, i've got over the fact that AF arrived, just like you a bit annoyed. I to had symptoms that I thought too real to be just my body faking it and absolutely convinced myself this was the month! I even had spotting what I thought was implantation, don't know what that was all about! Sorry to hear you to had a BFN, its heart renching and also annoying all at the same time. For me I never really know how to feel, so i'm still trying the "oh well there's always next time" approach.....i'm just not very good at convicing myself! Welldon't get to low.....there's always the next try

Takecare of you and lots of

 sentyour way

06/16/2008 06:56:08

Thanks for the comment! Wellgood luck to you! I hope she staysaway!

I'll keep everything crossed for you, well everything that's possible LOL.

Keep us all updated

06/15/2008 10:33:40

I thought me having to wait 3 days is going to be bad, you have 10 days to go! My bf has taken my bank card away from me so i cant buy a test until the day i am meant to POAS ha ha ha. I am with you on the falling asleep and waking up on the day that we can do HPT, i honestly didn not realise that ttc would be so stressfull, we have only been trying since Feb this year, but it seems longer! I am hoping that using the OPK will help the process along, this cycle is the first time i used OPK, and i was surprised to find out that i ovulated quite late in my cycle, so we may have been bding at the wrong times in the previous months. I have a friend that works in the fertility department of the hospital i work in, and she has advised me that i should keep a track of the position of my cervix too - what a lovely thought! To be honest i would not know where to start lol.

 

06/15/2008 10:17:04

lol, well i've got about 10 days before I'm going to test.  AF is due on the 23rd, so if shes not here by the 25th then i'll test.  And  I'm mainly only waiting that long b/c bf hid every single test I had at home. lol.  I have looked all over the house (when he's at work, of course.) and nothing. Its not fair. he really has no idea.  I wish i could fall asleep and wake up on the 25th, with a big ol baby belly lol

06/15/2008 09:54:55

Hey thanks for the comments on my blog!  That sucks that you thought you were a day ahead! o well.  I've got my fingers crossed for you too!

06/14/2008 14:49:57

 toTWW!  Getting the OPK is a great idea... I hope it works for you this cycle and you see your

06/14/2008 14:14:59

Well i am officially going out of my mind - i am 9dpo, i have about 3 days before i could even think about doing a HPT and i think my body is playing games with me. I swear i am getting symptoms, but the next minute i think i maybe coming down with something Ahhhhhh!!! I have been looking on this site to see if my symptoms match other peoples that are currently pregnant, and they do. I wrote my symptoms down first before i came on here (just to make sure that i was not imaging none of them) and 99% of my symptoms match other peoples, which in all honesty has not made me feel the least bit more optimistic about this being my month for a positive result. I have been bugging my friends and my family who have been pregnant, to see if they had any tell tale signs of pregnancy in the early stages, and some of them said that they "just knew" - which was no help to me, my best friend said that she just got really tired all the time, and my cousin said that she had an unbeleivable urge to eat ice cream (which she does not normally eat). I am more confused and anxious than i was 2 days ago!!

Anyone else feel the same?

 

Vicky