I am sorry to hear about your recent loss.  It is hard. I have never had a d&c however.  I can understand your frustration with your family, but I think that they are relly trying to be as supportive as they can. Sometimes the words do not come out as sweet as one would wish (I am so guilty of this), but it sounds like that they want you to not give up or blame yourself.  You most definitely reserve the right to grieve.  And, they should have shown some sympathy in this. They may not understand the struggle that you have in conceiving in general and that also makes it hard on you.  With PCOS it seems like you have to plan everything!!

I hope that you find the strength to get through this tough time and the courage to try again.  You will be in my prayers.