Okay…so I think I have some very useful information for all of us confused newbies! I kept finding on different sites to check out Toni Weschler’s “Taking Charge of Your Fertility” 10^th edition. So I finally decided to go and buy it yesterday and man, should’ve done that a looong time ago! I couldn’t put it down and was up reading until 2am!!! It was incredible!!! Answered seriously probably EVERY question I’ve seen posted here!! This is the only thing I’ve read thus far that’s calmed me down about this whole journey and actually given me confidence about getting pregnant!! I HIGHLY recommend you go and pick it up if you haven’t already. I had no problem finding it at my local Border’s bookstore and it was WELL worth the $20. I had previously been doing all my research online and piecing together bits and pieces to educate myself. Big mistake because literally, this book handles the whole thing. Charting, CM…all of it (including colored pictures believe it or not). Sooo….I know a lot of us have expressed being totally confused and some of us are already worried there could be an issue….this book put all that to rest for me and I really think everyone should check it out!! You’ll feel a lot better, trust me!