10/28/2008 09:10:10

Hey sweetie, how are you doing? *Hugs*

10/23/2008 22:10:00

Hey honey,

Just got your comment. You are quite welcome, if nothing else good comes out of my MCs I just pray God can give me someone else comfort. I for sure don't know everything, but am happy to help with the unfortunate knowledge about this. It helps me to get through believing God put me through all that so I could be a help to someone else. As for you saying sorry for the whining when you only had one MC and I have had 8, don't be sorry. It doesn't matter if a person has one or twenty, they are all painful and heartbreaking. Not one of my MCs has been easier than the other, you have no reason to be apologetic, you deserve to be able to grieve. My heart goes out to you because I have been where you are, but worry not God will provide that blessing. Hold tight to that promise, it has kept me strong when I have stumbled. 

As for the symptoms about you not normally having the bbs before AF, that is an unusual symptom. I may be wrong, I am only human, but that is one of the biggest indicators of pregnancy. Again like you said you could be wanting so badly to have a baby that your body is tricking you but I am going to be optimistic and pray otherwise. I am praying for you that you are pregnant and it is a sticky, beautiful, healthy baby bean. I do have one question for you though; after your HCG levels dropped back to normal did your breast soreness also diminish? Because if they disappeared and are now reappearing that is not something that usually happens unless you are fixing to get your BFP. IF they have remained that way, you still could be getting rebound pain. I don't want to get your hopes up, and I think it may be a good idea to wait until a week has past before testing. Mostly because I don't want you to get disappointed so soon after such a devastating time. I would say that I hope you are pregnant but I don't believe in only hoping, I believe in faith. I have faith that God has a hand in this, and he will comfort you with that baby you so desperately want. Just an after thought, but a woman is MOST FERTILE after a MC. My fingers are crossed, my hands are clasped, and my head is bowed in prayer for you; that this is that miracle taking root and preparing its mommy for arrival. Hope to hear from you soon. Comment me anytime, all my love. God bless and keep you sweety!

10/20/2008 15:38:01

Hey sweetie, thanks so much for your nice comments. I'm so very appreciative and I know you will make a wonderful mommy too! We both deserve it so much. I think I'm about 2DPO and already obsessing a little hehe. I'm thinking of you so much and hoping that things get better for you soon!

10/20/2008 11:38:21

 HEyhope you had a great weekend!!!

10/17/2008 14:43:44

Hey sweetie, thanks for asking about me. I had to reschedule my DR's appt because she just had a baby and something came up - but I'm going next week! I got a +OPK today and its only CD 14, I'm excited! How are you doing? I'm going to read your blogs now sweetie, sending hugs and babydust your way my friend!

10/17/2008 10:53:47

10/17/2008 09:40:59

I was told to count the first day of the miscarriage as CD1 since they were calling it a chemical pregnancy.  And I actually did not ovulate on time during that cycle.  I would have missed my ovulation if I wasn't using my fertility monitor.  I actually ovulated 7 days later then normal.  I actually thought I was not going to ovulate but I kept testing just in case.  We got our peaks while on vacation and the rest is history.  Best Of Luck to you.  I hope you get your BFP!!!

10/16/2008 11:07:57

Yeah it is a big time difference. It is 11:06am here and I have been at work since 8:00am. I wish it was 3:00 here and I was almost about to get off and go home to my DH.

10/16/2008 09:26:28

Hey girl I am doing fine this morning. I wish I was home instead of work. I have 7 more hours to go before I can be home on my chair watching tv.lol. How is you day going I hope well. ttyl

10/16/2008 08:11:15

I'd say a week is a good time to wait before you go to see the doctor. Although, if you're not pregnant, AF should be back to normal soon. I don't think anything severe is going on, but it's not a bad idea to go to the doctor and make 100% sure.

Anyway, I hope all turns out well for you and you get your BFP and sticky bean very soon! Let me know how it went.

10/16/2008 06:44:55

Don't afraid to ask, I'll answer if I can.

You do not count a miscarriage as part of your cycle. Unless it was a chemical pregnancy, where the egg fertilised but didn't implant... You have to start counting your cycle again from the next regular AF. The day you see blood, even if it's just spotting, is the day you start counting.

It can take anywhere from 1 - 2 months for your cycle to return to normal. The further along in your pregnancy you were, the longer it can take to return to normal. I've heard of women who took up to 6 months to return to a normal cycle, BUT that's the exception to the rule. With my last MC it took about 6 weeks...

Yes, an MC does throw your body all out of whack. Wait it out and see what happens. If you're not back to 'normal' after about 6 weeks, then go and see the doctor, just to make sure nothing stayed behind. I know it sounds horrible, but you can have an incomplete MC and may require a D & C.

Also remember that pregnancy, however brief, can and does change our bodies... it may be that you have now shifted to a 28 day cycle. Wait another week or two, then do an HPT... right after an MC there may still be some HCG in your system and you can get a positive, when you're not actually pg anymore.

I hope I've answered your questions... send me a msg if you have any more.

10/15/2008 11:19:19

Thanks for the add!! Looking forward to getting to kno u better!!!

10/14/2008 12:50:46

hey vicky im doing very well im 11 weeks 2 days,i heard the heart beat 2day in my gp s office and i have my next u/s on monday ,im delighted to see u back to yourself,believe me u will get pregnant again and have a full healthy baby,keep me posted hunny all my babydust for u

10/14/2008 05:17:53

Thanks for the comment.  That was very sweet.  You are so right.

10/01/2008 20:49:25

Ok I'm worried sweetie, how are you??