I just read your post and I am sorry to hear of your m/c. I really hope that an RE can help you out. That is who I turned to after mine. You will be in my prayers.
Congrats on your BFP!! I know how you feel about being proactive. The first thing I did this time was to get a Beta because the test will tell you your HCG and progesterone levels. My progesterone was 35! Thats super good. I think what helped was that I had taken clomid for my PCOS and that helps boost progest. levels. I had an u/s about a week after and everything looked fine. There was nothing else I could do other than follow my docs orders.
So definitely get the blood test!! My results came back in less than a day. I had two drawings however to make sure the HCG was doubling. It is scarey and I am just thanking God everyday I still have this pregnancy. Wishing you the best!!!
Hey I can understand. I did a bit of surfing for a while as well. It just takes alot out me to actually open up. Sorry to hear about your m/c, and as you may have seen you are not alone here. Thank you for the well wishes and I hope to hear more of your journey soon. Best of luck to you!!!