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Heartbroken to be back here after 8w5d

My husband rushed me to the ER Monday night due to extremely sharp pain that made me feel faint and nauseated. The pain then decided to come and go like labor is the only way I could describe it. After lots of tests and my husband being able to see the baby and the heartbeat at 179 on the monitor the doctor told us we were experiencing an ectopic pregnancy and that I was bleeding internally. They told us there was no way to save the baby or my damaged tube. They did surgery at 3 AM and now I'm no longer expecting in April  We need all the prayers we can get. We were told everything else looks good and that I should have no problems conceiving again soon.


I'm so so sorry! You will get through this and you will see a BFP soon. Lots of hugs and love sentbyour way! ❤️

Thank you!!!

I'm so sorry! Losing a baby is such a hard thing. I hope you recover quickly. Hugs!

I'm so sorry for your loss. Take care of yourself and hoping for another BFP for you soon

OH NO!!! Sending all the prayers I can muster your way. HUGS

Thank you all so much!

Omg, I'm so very sorry for your loss. Prayers for you and your dh. :(

Thank you!!! We appreciate the prayers so much, and we can tell...God is giving us so much peace and comfort :) I know I just have to take it one day at a time and allow myself to feel any emotion that comes my way. This is 100% the hardest thing we have ever gone through. We still have so much faith and hope that we will have a healthy pregnancy soon, and the love/bond between my husband and I is stronger and sweeter than ever! I will never truly understand why these things happen, but I do see God working in this and I know it is for His ultimate worship. This is what gets me through.

My heart is breaking for you. I know that feeling all too well. The important thing is that the doctors said everything else looks good! Take time to heal emotionally and physically. Keeping you in my thoughts and prayers!

Thank you so much!!!