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My name is Massy and this is my first time trying to conceive/plan a baby. I have 3 kids ages 16, 11 and 7 all turning another year this year. I got married young anf had my first daughtr at 15 years old. Since then I been afraid of admitting that one of my life dreams was to plan a pregnancy once I was a professional and with a partner that was equally excited and prepared. I was in a previous relationship 4 years ago for almost 14 years. I conceived all my children with this partner. It was not bad but I was sucked into that life because I got with him at 13 years old and him being 10 years my senior. Then thus I had a baby and then from there it all was all big numb dream.

Nedless to say 3 years ago I meet a wonderful man, me and him are about the same age I am 31 almost 32 and he is 30 almost 31. We both been preety much in love but afraid to admitt it to eah other and actually settling in. But since late last year, we have grown founder of accepting and forgiving our mistake and actually starting over. We came to a conclusion that we wanted to try to have something together and for him to be a step dad to my kids and how we can intragate both of us into one. We recently had though we where expecting because I had a late period in January. Supposed to come 1/11 but came in 1/29 ( different period more brownish and then a heavy period and ended in 4 days instead of 5). Well short story, I have decided to plan the baby, with basal thermo and all... Any advice!


This is a good idea dear. I am so happy for you. Now that you have a partner taht you want to settle with. There is more into parenthood. Especially if you are starting now to plan fir a kid. It might be a tiring period. But since you already have children. Which to me it sound like you never planned for them. Haha, its never that serious anyway. Children are a blessing from God. And you should be happy fro them. So there is a whole big deal when you are planning. Counting the days. Perhaps using ovulation k8ts and basal temperature. If you feel you need more help ion this you can consult you doctor. On my side I feel covered since my Bio tex clinic has been so helpful. I was also new to all this by they gave me a step by step direction.