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Should I use the name?

Screw her use it !!!!!!
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urgh baby name UPDATE

Postby Chrisandkarene » Sun Jan 11, 2009 3:47 pm

URGH my best friend from school and I were talking and she asked me about baby names that I planned on using. I told her Jewel Nautica and Mason_______. She was like no you can't use Mason I have loved that name since 9th grade. I tried to explain that Mason was a family name for my husband. Have I mentioned this is the only name my husband and I can agree on. Should I use the name or try to find something else?

See My update on page 2. URGH I am so done.
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Postby just_concieved » Sun Jan 11, 2009 4:09 pm

you said it first.. go for it .. after all you did put it out there that it was a family name..
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Postby Chrisandkarene » Sun Jan 11, 2009 4:12 pm

Thanks thats how I feel about it.. I am going to keep looking but so far that is the only name Hubby and I can agree on.. I mean crap we can't even do a middle name and now she says I can't use teh first name URGH.. I should have never told her.
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Postby Lindsey » Sun Jan 11, 2009 4:14 pm

Who cares what she thinks? Name your baby what you want :D
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Postby jessica0509 » Sun Jan 11, 2009 4:35 pm

youve got dibs!!!
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Postby Lizc0002 » Sun Jan 11, 2009 4:57 pm

No one owns a name, so if you have your heart set on it use it especially since it is a family name. I think it is silly that people think or claim ownership on a name, who cares if you both end up with sons with the same name or who knows if she will ever even have a son.

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Postby Stephie702 » Sun Jan 11, 2009 5:06 pm

i agree wiht all the pp....if u were pregnant together and have talked about names fromt he beginign then that would be kinda messed up...
but like u said its a name from your family, and if you love it you lvoe it.....use it girl!!! she should understand....
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Postby S45890223 » Sun Jan 11, 2009 5:09 pm

She's being selfish in my mind. Who cares if she loved it since 9th grade? It's not like she told you. You're the pregnant one. What if she never has a boy? You could have used it. I say use it. If she's really a friend, she won't care.
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Postby PreggoliciousLaura » Sun Jan 11, 2009 6:12 pm

I say you go ahead & use it!
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Postby imdesired » Sun Jan 11, 2009 6:26 pm

You know what is funny? This is always a beef between the adults/parents, but the kids could never care at all about it.

The kids are going to think this is the coolest thing next to iPods to have the same name! Especially that their parents know each other!

I say go for it!
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Postby Chrisandkarene » Sun Jan 11, 2009 6:45 pm

S45890223 wrote:She's being selfish in my mind. Who cares if she loved it since 9th grade? It's not like she told you. You're the pregnant one. What if she never has a boy? You could have used it. I say use it. If she's really a friend, she won't care.


I do remember her mentioning it but it was when she was in Love with a guy named Perry. I thought she would get over it. WE hadn't talked about it in like 10 years or more.
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Postby Leeza717 » Sun Jan 11, 2009 8:05 pm

I say use it. is she even pregnant or ttc right now?
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Postby bellabelli » Sun Jan 11, 2009 8:43 pm

There are so many 'rules' with the whole naming thing!! I can't keep up!

My SIL literally instructed me when I was pregnant (she was not), that I could NOT use the names Olivia or Sophia, because they were HERS. :? Let's just say it was a very polite warning... WHATEVER. But, truthfully, she has been so obsessed with those names, I wouldn't use them, I'd feel wierd. In this dream in her head, she somehow has her heart set on Olivia or Sophia. Turns out since then she had a boy and chose a name that she knew I loved (and she had made it seem that she hated)!!!!!!!! How annoying is that?!? whatever, it really isn't that big of a deal to me, but. . .


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Postby mrspattyann » Sun Jan 11, 2009 10:31 pm

Name that baby whatever you want! She'll just have to deal!
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Postby Chrisandkarene » Sun Jan 11, 2009 10:47 pm

Leeza717 wrote:I say use it. is she even pregnant or ttc right now?

no shes not in a relationship and has not had a boyfriend in over 6 years. She lives with her parents due to some medical problems.
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