Pregnant after miscarriage. **update = loss

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Re: Pregnant after miscarriage. **update = loss

Postby Tange86 » Sun Apr 12, 2015 6:18 am

Awe sorry to hear pumpkin!

I get that pain standing up. When your pregnant things start to relax and your pelvis starts to move. So when you stand you'll feel a pull sometimes.

Have you ever looked into cold uterus syndrom? It's a chinese medicine thing. The only difference really from my first cycle to my second cycle other than eod was I worked really hard to keep my feet warm and it was my first cycle charting where I had a big jump at o instead of a creep.

Worth a Google?
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Re: Pregnant after miscarriage. **update = loss

Postby Annabelle19 » Sun Apr 12, 2015 8:28 am

I'm so sorry pumpkinseed! Be well and keep the faith -- I'm pulling for you!
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Re: Pregnant after miscarriage. **update = loss

Postby Jessicanscott » Sun Apr 12, 2015 10:35 am

Pumpkin I'm so sorry. I know you must be devastated. It's really difficult when you want something so bad but your body doesn't seem to be able to do it for you. I understand the need for you to take a break from this site. Sometimes all you need is time to yourself. I hope you'll keep TTC because I have hope that you'll get your sticky bean sooner than you know it. I know that the next time it happens the worry will always be there but the ladies here will support you in whatever you need.
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Re: Pregnant after miscarriage. **update = loss

Postby Pinkpuma » Sun Apr 12, 2015 2:33 pm

Jessica: I had never spotted either, at either end of period or my first two pregnancies so it did freak me out. With my son I spotted weeks 5-8 every colour of the rainbow then had various bigger bleeds followed by spotting on and off throughout the pregnancy including a subchorionic haemorrhage at 13 weeks where (like your mc) I was fine one minute then started gushing blood. I also passed a clot the size of a satsuma. It was scary, and I got told I'd miscarried before a Doppler or scan had been done! Anyway, I had a scan at another hospital and the bleed was away from the placenta and resolved itself which goes to prove that bleeding can just happen and be harmless. I don't freak out when I spot now. It is scary to generally be pregnant after a mc but I try hard not to compare. This is a new 'milkshake' lol. Hope everything is going well for you. How many weeks are you?

Pumpkinseed: Really sorry to hear of your chemical pregnancy. I know they are common but it doesn't make it any easier to deal with. Will you try again or do you feel want a break from ttc? It can be emotionally draining eh!
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Re: Pregnant after miscarriage. **update = loss

Postby Targaryen » Mon Apr 13, 2015 3:07 am

Pumpkinseed, I'm so sorry for your loss. For what it is worth, I completely understand how you are feeling about facing family and friends and being around others who got pregnant, stayed pregnant and had a baby without a struggle. I am sending you lots of hugs. Please take time to care for yourself. Taking a break from this site is a good idea and if you're on Facebook or any other social media sites, taking a break from them can help too.

I hope you will have the baby you desperately want soon!
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Re: Pregnant after miscarriage. **update = loss

Postby pumpkinseed » Mon Apr 13, 2015 10:33 am

Thanks ladies! I appreciate the support. I realize it was just a CP but you get your hopes up, you know?
I'm feeling a little better today and found a TTC after loss group on TTC boards, so I'll probably be over there for the most part.

I'm glad to see you guys are progressing and it's giving me hope. I'm just trying to get to the bottom of why this keeps happening so close together. I did get prego this time right away which was nice but if it doesn't stick that does me no good!

I'm still just spotting (barely), no bleeding yet. How long for prometrium to get out of your system. I stopped the blood thinners as well. We'll see how long this takes.

I'm sure I'll check in to see how you're doing. Take care!
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Re: Pregnant after miscarriage. **update = loss

Postby care327 » Mon Apr 13, 2015 10:54 am

usually a couple of days. <3 keep your head up pumpkin n i will continue to pray for u xo
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Re: Pregnant after miscarriage. **update = loss

Postby pumpkinseed » Mon Apr 13, 2015 11:16 am

thanks care! I'm hanging in there.
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Re: Pregnant after miscarriage. **update = loss

Postby Tange86 » Mon Apr 13, 2015 11:59 am

Pumpkin. I know some doctors reccomend taking a cycle or two off to allow your lining to build up. Then there is the cold uterus thing.

Have you been able to get any ultra sounds to monitor your lining? Maybe all you need is some progesterone?

Hopefully its an easy fix and you continue to have luck concieving and next time will be a take home baby!
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March 28th :bfp: @ 9dpo
March 30th: beta 85 @ 11dpo
May 7th: 1st Appt, Measuring 9weeks :hb: 169
May 28th: 12 week, Labs are fantastic, heard the placenta on the left and baby in the middle!
June 3rd: NT Scan, Labs came back great, Expecting a Healthy Baby! 12,6 weeks :hb: 151
June 24th: Elective Ultrasound :future baby girl:
August 3rd: 21,4 :hb: 140

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Re: Pregnant after miscarriage. **update = loss

Postby Pinkpuma » Tue Apr 14, 2015 4:25 am

Pumpkinseed: It's true what Tange said about docs recommend taking a cycle or two off but I heard straight after a mc/cp you are super fertile and it's the best time to conceive. We wasted no time and I conceived again 2 weeks after passing the sac. I had no period and my DS is now a healthy 11 month old. So it worked for us not waiting a cycle but I guess it depends on whether you're emotionally ready or not. Some people don't want to try again for months. Either way i hope things with out for you :-)
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Re: Pregnant after miscarriage. **update = loss

Postby Tange86 » Tue Apr 14, 2015 5:34 am

We hope to see you back here whenever you are able! Hopefully soon!

Good luck!
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Our First

March 28th :bfp: @ 9dpo
March 30th: beta 85 @ 11dpo
May 7th: 1st Appt, Measuring 9weeks :hb: 169
May 28th: 12 week, Labs are fantastic, heard the placenta on the left and baby in the middle!
June 3rd: NT Scan, Labs came back great, Expecting a Healthy Baby! 12,6 weeks :hb: 151
June 24th: Elective Ultrasound :future baby girl:
August 3rd: 21,4 :hb: 140

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