What's the earliest you've DTD after baby?

Fourth you ask? Your body is still full of pregnancy hormones as you adjust to life sleep-deprived with your new baby outside your womb.

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What's the earliest you've DTD after baby?

Postby Wishingandwaitingnomore! » Tue Nov 10, 2009 8:02 pm

I'm getting that itch, but am scared to try. Thursday will be 3 weeks and the stitches are almost gone. What's everyones experience with this? Thanks in advance. :)
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Postby Luv2Skydive » Tue Nov 10, 2009 8:10 pm

I waited until 6w PP with my first 2 sons just because that's what I was told, but with my last boy I listened to my body instead and DTD at 3.5w PP and it was just fine! :D
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Postby slayergrl99 » Wed Nov 11, 2009 1:09 am

I have to wait because I had a section (and it still aches). But man, do i want to now.
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Postby 27jillfinallypreggo » Wed Nov 11, 2009 8:33 am

I am about 6,5 weeks pp. we tried to dtd last night, after i had gotten the all clear at my pp check. i only had one stich and it was uncomfortable. make sure to use lots of lube.
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Postby Wishingandwaitingnomore! » Wed Nov 11, 2009 4:06 pm

Thanks ladies. :) I think I might wait another week before trying. I'm scared to now, and I know being scared will make me tense, which will not help things.
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Postby Kelly13 » Wed Nov 11, 2009 6:56 pm

13 days PP. Dh was going back to Iraq, so I figured we should try before we had to wait 8 months ;)

I had stitches and it wasn't as bad as I thought it would be. He probably enjoyed it more than I did ;)
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Postby peachy_sweet » Wed Nov 11, 2009 7:08 pm

i have had the itch since i had the baby....lol. i have to wait it out thought b/c i am still bleeding on and off , i had a c-section, my skin is raw and hurting from this nasty rash i have, and plus i am scared of getting pregnant again real soon. i have resulted to satisfying dh and getting off on pleasing him. i told him it might be my bday by the time i want to dtd. i think it's the hormones that are making us into horn dogs....lol
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Postby mspretty » Wed Nov 11, 2009 9:14 pm

Funny... Dh keeps asking me about stitches and if i'm still bleeding? He was very patient during the PG he prolly wants some now. Sad thing is I still bleed a lil and I don't know if my stitches fell out
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Postby armanda 8 » Thu Nov 12, 2009 5:23 am

5 weeks
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Postby jadie_f » Thu Nov 12, 2009 9:19 am

im still bleeding heavy, and i had a bad tearand still have a lot of pain, so i dont even want to, however, i have been having more sexual dreams than when i was preg, so i guess i want it on some level. i have to wait 7 weeks until i have my
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Postby Bee-Jeweled » Thu Nov 12, 2009 9:31 am

12w pp - i was terrified to try and it was definitely not as bad as i thought it would be and the lube definitely helped! i had a 2nd-3rd degree tear.
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Postby memi » Thu Nov 12, 2009 1:00 pm

i had a section and waited 10 days. I felt great, so why not!!LOL!!
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Postby NicoleK03 » Thu Nov 12, 2009 5:03 pm

I had an epi and two small tears. We DTD at exactly 3 weeks pp and it was not bad at all. It was a little sore at first but he just went slow. By 4-5 weeks we were back to DTD like before we got preggo and its been WONDERFUL!! I was like you I just didn't want to wait any longer.
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Postby Wishingandwaitingnomore! » Sat Nov 14, 2009 10:03 pm

Thanks again!

Just wanted to update that we tried @ 3w2d PP. It wasn't bad at all, but I think I ripped a stitch! :oops:
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Postby kaj » Sun Nov 15, 2009 12:28 pm

I've got the itch now and I'm still pregnant! DH is scared of hitting LO's head 8O
My OB actually said he might so now it's basically out for sure. I can't even remember the last time we did!
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