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Please pray for my husband and I...

Postby Shelly85 » Thu Jun 05, 2008 8:53 am

I feel kinda silly asking for it, after reading some of the prayer requests on here... but my husband and I have come on some very difficult times, and if things don't start looking up, we most likely will be getting a divorce. As it says in my sig, I do love my husband very much, but I don't know how much more I can bare.
Long story short, he's been having an emotional affair with a woman he works with since the beginning of Feb. I found out about it right away, but it's still been going on. Found out more in the middle of Feb, and then more again in the middle of March, and now I have found e-mails between the two of them, using words such as Love, and "satisfied"...
My husband insists it was not sexual, and I have to believe him, I have no other option. And that he only said love because it's easy... he doesn't LOVE her... and that he still loves me.
We're going to see a counsellor tonight...
I'm feeling very hopeless at this point.
Please pray that God shows my husband why he feels the way he does, and that God helps us to restore our marriage. He's had these emotional walls up around him since we got married (which is another reason why I hurt so much about an EMOTIONAL affair...) so please pray that the Lord will help us develop a healthy emotional relationship, and to gain intamacy between one another. I know that something has happened to make him refuse to have any intimacy... and I'm trying to understand that it's not me, it's his issue. But it so greatly affects me.

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Postby Kasey » Thu Jun 05, 2008 10:11 am

That has to be so hard. :hugs: You have my prayers. Good luck with the counselor.
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Postby blessedmommy » Thu Jun 05, 2008 2:28 pm

I am so sorry that you are going through this! :praying:
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Postby Mrs_Lurker » Thu Jun 05, 2008 4:28 pm

Prayers being sent!
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Postby Christina88 » Fri Jun 06, 2008 2:49 pm

So sorry to hear that :hugs: I'm glad you are going to see a counselor, it's a good first step. Saying a prayer for your family.
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Postby aimsy » Fri Jun 06, 2008 2:56 pm

praying for you and your husband.

God can do amazing things, he can surely work in your marriage!
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Postby Shelly85 » Mon Jun 09, 2008 12:14 pm

Thank you ladies. I'm going to need to add one more thing to my list of prayer requests if you will...
I just found porn on the keylogger I added. He's been looking at porn. He's due to get home in about 20 minutes, and I'm trying to stay calm, and I'm trying to think of what the Lord would want a Godly wife to do in this situation. Pray for him... please pray for him girls... I guess when it rains it pours... and it must just be my husbands rainy season.
I'm trying really hard not to take this personally, but it's hard when... let's just say the sex roles are reversed in our marriage (I want it all the time, he doesn't care for it...) And he's looking at Porn.
I'm starting to feel so hopeless for this marriage.
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Postby Cally » Mon Jun 09, 2008 12:41 pm

so sorry you are going through this, I hope eveything works out for you
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Postby Kelly13 » Mon Jun 16, 2008 8:25 am

I'm so sorry you're having to deal with this. I pray things get better.
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Postby Justme2 » Tue Jun 17, 2008 5:27 pm

sorry to hear your marriage is in trouble
BUT it seems to an issue for your husband
ie the pron thing is definately an issue
hoepfully you can get it resolved
and your husband can see a solution
is in his hands to work hard at earning your trust again.
It seems its a trust issue now and a self control thing
first thing would be he would have to agree to come
computer police policy between you and another man
whom could be his accountablility partner.
Trust in the lord with all your understanding and he will make YOUR path straight.
prayer for GOD to restore your marriage.
and make it better than before and that this issue can be
a testimony of his greatness and faithfullness in being a good god.
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Postby KatieJo3 » Wed Jun 18, 2008 6:08 am

I'm sorry that you are having to go through this, especially with a little one. Know that it's truly his issue and even though it hurts you, he probably brought these emotional issues into the marriage. I'm glad you are seeing a counselor....I hope it will open your DH's eyes.
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