Strange to feel so calm...

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Strange to feel so calm...

Postby brottbaby2009 » Sat Apr 04, 2009 4:41 am

It seems so strange to me that this time I have a sense of calmness. I almost feel like everything it out of my control and whatever is meant to happen will happen. During my first pregnancy (last at 9 wks) I was so stressed worrying sick over everything and now I feel so different... anyone else feel this way?
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Postby jellybean » Sat Apr 04, 2009 9:21 am

No. :lol: I hope that you continue feeling this way throughout your pregnancy. I started out feeling pretty confident based on betas and pee stick lines but it is hard for me not to worry. My worry can occasionally be irrational so I hope that you hold on to that feeling and don't let it go.
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Postby Manthaj » Thu May 07, 2009 8:57 am

I am in the same boat as you...I found out 01-02-09 that my babies heart stopped beating and then had a d&c on 01-07-09...Just found out yesterday that i was pregnant again...and i have this wierd overly calm feeling...almost like what happens happens...glad i am not the only one!!
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Postby Ashley » Mon Jun 22, 2009 8:30 am

brottbaby....I have had 2 days of absolute worry but other than that I do have a feeling everything will be alright this time around. For some reason and it may be just me...but this was not planned like the other time, it was a surprise and I feel like God wants me to have this baby!

Last time on the day that I tested....I had this overwhelming feeling of impending doom, like i wasn't supposed to have that baby, that he was just showing me I could get pregnant. Not to mention I had a countless amount of dreams that I had the baby early, miscarried or what have you but the thing that topped it all was that I was at a mall in a store and I was buying baby clothes....go figure (not doing that again) and it was like time stopped and everyone in the store stopped moving and I heard God say to me "I need this baby back" and then everything started moving far it was one of the weirdest experiences I ever felt....but I started crying uncontrollably and when I returned home from vacation....i was spotting and it indeed had died 4wks earlier....just stopped growing.

Sorry to blabber on about my experience but I do feel really positive about this one!
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Postby DoulaMama » Sat Sep 05, 2009 12:23 pm

I also feel this way.

I think it's because, it is really out of my hands. I know that, if this baby is meant to be ours then it will. And I truly feel that it will.
If I start worrying about this or that, I quickly remind myself that, what will be, will be and that really helps.

GL :)
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