Any one else having night mares ....

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Any one else having night mares ....

Postby zodiacbaby » Sat Apr 24, 2010 2:51 pm

I lost my last pregnancy at 13 weeks; the baby stopped growing at 9 weeks and it took almost 5 weeks before I found out and now I am petrified.... and last night I had a terrible nightmare that I had another m/c.... Am I the only one?
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Postby macleesy » Sat Apr 24, 2010 9:23 pm

I have horrible nightmares, mainly that my little girl ends up in the hospital with tubes like Connor. I think nightmares are a natural expression of your fears, not that knowing that makes it any easier! :hugs:
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Postby Alberta_born » Sat Apr 24, 2010 10:09 pm

I had MC nihgtmares at the beginning of this pregnancy as well. Like Macleesy said, I think it is just our minds expressing our fears. Hope they go away for you soon.
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Postby djdebz » Sun Apr 25, 2010 1:22 am

I had an awful nightmare 2 nights ago of a miscarriage and the sheets covered with bloods. It was horrific, I think its because I cant stop worrying about having another miscarriage- every time I go to the toilet I am checking so its always in my mind. So you are not alone. :wink:
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Postby zodiacbaby » Sun Apr 25, 2010 5:36 pm

its just so terrible. I hate that I am having such terrible dreams :(; but like you said I am not alone.
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Postby djdebz » Mon Apr 26, 2010 1:44 am

I had another nightmare last night about a miscarrigae happening again, its really awful isnt it.
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Postby savigny » Mon Apr 26, 2010 5:45 am

oh my god. i also had 2 nightmares last night that left me feeling really negative and hopeless this morning. i am just so worried, plus i have my first u/s tomorrow and i am totally freaked out for it. i know there is nothing i can do and i just wish i could relax and let it go, but i can't.
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Postby Jennyrea » Mon Apr 26, 2010 11:59 am

Yep, I have been having all kinds of horrible nightmares. My doc calls them night terrors. The miscarriage ones are the worst. I am always afraid that it is my body telling me it is over. It stinks!!!
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Postby eshetz » Fri May 07, 2010 4:21 am

I had the scariest nightmare last night that the DR. called and said my numbers were dropping and I was going to have another m/c. It feels so real and now I am so worried.

I had AF cramps yesterday which really freaked me out and then today I don't have any cramping...is that normal?
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Postby rachelrhin0 » Fri May 07, 2010 7:18 pm

I just had my 1st one this pregnancy a few nights ago. It's an awful thing to have to deal with.


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Postby hopeSutton » Sat May 08, 2010 6:00 pm

im still having horrific vivd nightmartes.. i cant even post what they are as they are so distressing

hugs mummas.. xxxx
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DD 22, DS 4 DD Marley Memphis Angel 2 years , DD 20 months , 3 early losses, + 1 stillbirth
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This time: cervical shortening from 17wks. Rescue cerclage placed at 22wks, was 100% effaced, 1cm dilated, waters bulging.

we were done having babies.. but Surprise!

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Postby photofashionista » Sun May 09, 2010 11:43 pm

I still have nightmares also. :( So sorry you're dealing with that.
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Postby 1stbaby_miracle » Tue May 11, 2010 6:37 pm

I use to have nightmares all the time after my miscarriage. I would dream about doing things that would make me have another miscarriage like drinking and smoking. I never did that while I was pregnant. I think subconsciously I was thinking it was my fault and that it would happen again.
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Postby smomj » Tue Jun 01, 2010 10:50 am

Constantly, I don't think I am going to be able to have a good nights rest till this little girl is safetly in my arms.
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