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Pregnant after 3 losses

Postby number4ontheway » Fri Jun 25, 2010 11:32 am

Hello ladies
I am pregnant after three losses. This is my 7th pregnancy as I have three healthy children. I just need to know if it is normal to be this freaked out about having another m/c. 8O I am just soo nervous. I know I need to relax but I am analyzing every symptom...I hope I get to stick around on this board!
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Postby dansgirl » Fri Jun 25, 2010 2:01 pm

I just wanted to say that is totally normal. I am 37 and pregnant for the 9th time....I had a m/c with my first pregnancy before my now 15 yr old ds was born. I went on to have 2 more beautiful children who are ds 13 and dd 12. They are my children from my first marriage. Dh now has no biological children and we have been ttc this miracle baby for 3 1/2 yrs...we had 3 chemical pregnancies in the first 1 1/2 yrs or so and then a missed m/c last yr at this time. My heart goes out to you I understand the stress and worry. I am going for an ultra sound on June 30 and am praying to see a healthy bean with a strong heart beat.
You will find a lot of support here as I am sure you know. There are many of us in the same situation.
I hope you are feeling well and are able to relax....although I am having trouble with that myself! If you ever need to pm me feel free....

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Postby smomj » Fri Jun 25, 2010 2:47 pm

Can totally relate. This is my 9th pregnancy and I have 2 living children. My last loss was the hardest by far because of being much further along than my other angels. Now I take everyday as a gift. I pray that at the end I have a healthy child but until then I am walking on egg shells.
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Postby number4ontheway » Fri Jun 25, 2010 3:00 pm

Thanks ladies! I know I will be walking on egg shells until I have the baby. Thanks for the warm welcome I look forward to getting to know you ladies :D
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Postby lbabydustw » Tue Jun 29, 2010 7:24 am

This is my 3rd Pg in less than a year and I have never had a successful PG as of yet. Somedays I feel like I can't breath I am so scared but I jsut have to keep reminding myself to breath. I go in tomorrow for my "annual" and I am going to insist on some kind of confirmation on how this PG is doing. I should be 10+ weeks, which would be the farthest I have ever made it in a PG. I am praying everyday for good news.
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Postby number4ontheway » Tue Jun 29, 2010 10:28 am

Hi Laura
the farthest I have made it is 5 weeks without spotting soo if I make it to the first u/s I know I will feel some relief but still will be nervous! I think it is normal to feel this way! I just pray everyday that this little one is sticky and stays in there!!
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Postby lbabydustw » Tue Jun 29, 2010 12:07 pm

Number4-I spotted from 5weeks until 8+weeks. Hang in there hun!
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DD born 1/7/11 *Diagnosed with Cystic Fibrosis @ 6 days old
IVF for #2-BFP 10 dpo
1st Beta = 187 @ 13 dpo (8dp5dt)
2nd Beta=1432 @ 17dpo
6w4d=TWINS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Postby number4ontheway » Tue Jun 29, 2010 4:26 pm

trying too! have your symptoms come and gone? I keep experiencing this with my sore bbs sometimes they are sore and other time they are not! I know with my three kids I never got really sore bbs until 7-8 weeks soo hoping this is a good sign! Ugh the waiting sucks! I just want feb to get here! :lol:
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Postby lbabydustw » Tue Jun 29, 2010 5:23 pm

Yes, exactly. My symptoms have come gone and the ones I have had have been totally wierd. I have stomach aches instead of nausea...what's up with that?
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