Going for D&C this morning :/

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Going for D&C this morning :/

Postby NiecyDueinDec » Tue May 12, 2015 6:04 am

Hi ladies! Going in for my D&C today. First ever hopefully the procedure goes smooth. I found out I lost the pregnancy last week when I was 7w4, embryo stopped growing at 5w6. We are so anxious to start again with TTC as this would be our first child and we were so ready this pregnancy. I am hoping to have no more m/c I dont know if I could bare it. All I know is this time around in a few months or so if we are lucky enough to get pregnant again, we won't even tell family until we are confident because it was so hard breaking the news to them this time.
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Date of conception 3/29
First faint positive on First Response 4/7 9dpo
First positive on Clear Blue Digital 4/9
Gained an Angel on 5/6 7w4 baby stopped growing at 5w5
D&C 5/12/15
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Re: Going for D&C this morning :/

Postby Danielle0614 » Tue May 12, 2015 11:51 am

This is going to be a very tough couple of days and weeks for you ahead. My heart is heavy for you and I will keep you in my prayers as you go through this difficult time.

I had gone through one MC at 10wks and 2 chemicals. My DH and I both vowed not to tell anyone this time around. The thing is - if I do lose this pregnancy, I'll need a lot more support than just my DH. Even though I know he'll cry with me and hurt just as much as I do, I just feel like I will need more. We won't be telling everyone or posting it on Facebook. Just my parents, his parent's and my brothers and sisters. My family is very close and I want to be able to share not just the sadnes, but also the excitement.

There's no wrong or right in terms of timing for telling people. This is definitely a decision that you make that is best for you - I hope I didn't step on your toes.

Again, my thoughts and prayers are with you today.
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DS 18
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:angel: CP 10/2014 (Clomid Cycle)
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BETA #1 (13 dpo) - HCG - 86 / Progesterone - 20.1
BETA #2 (15 dpo) - HCG - 178.
BETA #3 (17 dpo) - HCG - 464.4
5.21.2015 - :hb: 130 bpm - measuring 1 day ahead at 6wks 2 days.
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Re: Going for D&C this morning :/

Postby NiecyDueinDec » Tue May 12, 2015 1:49 pm

Hi! Thanks for your kind words. The procedure went well and I am relieved that it is over. Now we can work on the future for both of us. :) Luckily I have an amazing OB GYN and she is very attentive and caring. Next time we fall pregnant I will be getting in to see her much sooner and have blood work done sooner as well. Wishing you the best with your pregnancy!
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Date of conception 3/29
First faint positive on First Response 4/7 9dpo
First positive on Clear Blue Digital 4/9
Gained an Angel on 5/6 7w4 baby stopped growing at 5w5
D&C 5/12/15
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Re: Going for D&C this morning :/

Postby Mantis » Wed Jul 08, 2015 9:06 pm

Hi niecy

How are you doing lately ? I had a D and C on may 8 and am pg again and am so scared to be excited.

Hope you're well
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DH:33 (male factor fertility: 20% motility)
Married 23/03/2013
TTC #1 since 1/2015
M/C @7w3d
Cycle 29 days. LP: 10 days
Supplements: Vitex, B6, Vit D, Prenatal Multi-Vit (Me), Menevit (DH)

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