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i am pregant for the first time.....help me....

Postby ShayScott2013 » Thu Jan 29, 2015 4:36 pm

I have a vaginal bleeding and I don't know if my baby is safe and okay I went to the doctors and they said that they cant find a heartbeat and that the yolk sak and fetal pole and my hcg 184 what is a normal hCG level and when is it supposed to go up...and because of the vaginal bleeding and cervical ectopic am I supposed to say on bed rest and how long will this last....what is gestational sac with fetal pole observed meaning?
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Postby OCT.4me » Fri Jan 30, 2015 4:13 am

If you didn't get any answers yet: ask again about hcg. That number is too low to see anything and it would be way too soon to see heartbeat or your hcg is too low for their to be a heartbeat yet. 6000 hcg is the number to be around to see heartbeat.

Next I'm sorry for what your going through!! Scary! Many women bleed and it turns out ok; I have has spotting before and all was well.

How far along are you? But I would take it easy until bleeding stops and press dr. For more information. Are they concerned?
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Postby kelbri29 » Fri Jan 30, 2015 5:14 am

it all depends how far along you are, try not to worry. Call your doctor for reassurance/answers if your worried or confused. xx
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Postby ShayScott2013 » Fri Jan 30, 2015 8:41 am

I am about 6 weeks along and I don't know wat cervical ectopic means so can help me with the meaning and they said that they can see the yolk sac and fetus of where the baby is but wat is a fetal pole tho and is that good or a bad thing to show???? I just don't know wat to look out for becuz when I am carrying this baby becuz its my first pregnancy and I don't know wat I am doing wat week is that when I get to 6000 hCG count are that high becuz I am only 184 hCG level...my ob/gyn said she wants me to come back in a week to wat and a vaginal ultrasound again to see everything doing in my belly I guess I don't know they can't just do ultrasound tho and do they have to do the vaginal instead of the ultrasound from my stomach.....I looked on Google and I was wondering it supposed to double withing two days than.....or no...
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Postby kelbri29 » Sat Jan 31, 2015 10:57 am

did they say that you have a cervical ectopic? the fetal pole IS the baby, and its in its gestational sac, thats good at this point. if its a cervical ectopic thats not so good, i dont want to scare you or upset you bu if they are correct that it is a cervical ectopic, this will most likely end in miscarriage. im so sorry your going through this :cry: have they asked you to come back in for another scan? what did they say to you??
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Postby kelbri29 » Sat Jan 31, 2015 11:05 am

sorry..still didnt expalin, a cervical ectopic is when the baby implants and begins to grow in the cervix rather than the uterus. The fetus cannot survive in the cervix. im so sorry for you xx :cry:
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Postby ShayScott2013 » Sat Jan 31, 2015 11:20 am

So I might lose my baby and yes I have to get a check here in two week to see how it is doing but wat is it that i can do to prevent that from happening. and is there anything they can do to keep to surviving or no...but ts not the thing my lower stomach doesn't hurt it my upper part of my stomach tho....and I threw up for the first time yesterday three times actually wat does that It mean when you I do that than...and you get dizzy and hot all of a sudden....help me asap...
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Postby kelbri29 » Sat Jan 31, 2015 11:23 am

if it is definitely cervical ectopic, then im sorry but yes you will lose the baby, theres nothing anyone can do im sorry, the sickness, dizziness etc are pregnancy symptoms, your getting these because theres still HCG in your body while baby is still there. :( did your doctor actually say it IS cervical ectopic or that they suspected it and werent sure?
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Postby kelbri29 » Sat Jan 31, 2015 11:29 am

are you okay?
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Postby ShayScott2013 » Sat Jan 31, 2015 11:36 am

That wat they suspected that I had yea I am I guess have to deal with it if happens rite they said my cervix is close and supposed to be if I am pregnant and if its not that means that I was going to have a miscarriage at that point but I don't wat to do to get the pain to go away tho and is it supposed to double or something becuz mine the last time I checked was 184 hCG and I didn't know if was supposed to double tho...
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Postby ShayScott2013 » Sat Jan 31, 2015 11:40 am

HCG is 1843 is that at normal than or no.....
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Postby ShayScott2013 » Sat Jan 31, 2015 11:44 am

It says that they are suggesting that I have that but it does say anything it is tho and that their no heartbeat but is to early to tell yet.....
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Postby kelbri29 » Sat Jan 31, 2015 11:46 am

I couldn't tell you if its normal, soory. They normally take two tests, a bit apart, to see if theres an increase or a drop in numbers. you normally see a heartbeat around 6and half weeks i think, but depends on your dates, if they are off a day or two that would explain why they didnt see it. But even if baby is growing, if its in the wrong place (on your cervix) they may wait for nature to take its course or give you something to terminate the pregnancy, as the baby can not survive long term in the cervix and it will get more dangerous for you the longer it stays there. Im so sorry for you.
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Postby kelbri29 » Sat Jan 31, 2015 11:49 am

im hoping that they are wrong! fingers crossed for you xx
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Postby kelbri29 » Sat Jan 31, 2015 11:54 am

i just googled it, by the time you levels are 1800 you should see a gestational sac, and 7200 for a yolk sac to be seen, and above 10,000 a heartbeat would be seen. does that help?
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