Question.. May be TMI for some....

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Question.. May be TMI for some....

Postby PiscesPassion » Wed Jan 02, 2013 5:23 pm

Ok.. this may sound a little crazy but am I alone in this?

Eversince I became pregnant with this baby and have told DH I really want to succeed at BFing this time.. he's done nothing but say how HE wants to try it to! As in.. HE wants to BF!! This totally disgusts me and turns me completely off! I've told him this and he's just like.. stop being a prude... :mad:

Some family members I've talked to about it are just like.. let him try it once.. um... NO!! It just totally disgusts me. Breastmilk is meant for babies not grown men..... am I alone in my thoughts on this topic????

I just wish he would back off about it because it pisses me off more everytime he brings it up. It also makes me nervous when I do start to BF because I want to focus on being successful at it, not worrying about DH bugging me about something I refuse to do... :?
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Re: Question.. May be TMI for some....

Postby jessm » Thu Jan 03, 2013 6:49 am

Is he joking?

My DH has accidentally tasted mine when we DTD. You'll be wearing a bra 99% of the time so just tell him no. He should get it eventually!
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Re: Question.. May be TMI for some....

Postby PiscesPassion » Thu Jan 03, 2013 8:47 am

No he's not joking about it.... and I told him I refuse to let him do it and it always turns into a stupid argument :?
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Re: Question.. May be TMI for some....

Postby mrsg2008 » Thu Jan 03, 2013 12:52 pm

My DH won't stop touching my boobs...I think he finds it more fascinating because I don't really let him do it anymore. I don't find my breast sexual at all anymore--they have a purpose now! He keeps 'honking' them. All the time. He has mentioned wanting to taste my BM, and I told him no. It's just way too weird for me.
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Re: Question.. May be TMI for some....

Postby PiscesPassion » Thu Jan 03, 2013 2:58 pm

Glad I'm not the only one who feels this way... now if I could just get him to back off about it :?
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Re: Question.. May be TMI for some....

Postby KJ511 » Mon Jan 07, 2013 8:31 pm

Oh wow, poor you! DH has thankfully not expressed interest in wanting to taste my milk. I would probably let him taste it ONCE if he really wanted to but not right from the source. He could lick a drip off the pump parts, haha! I hope you will be successful with BFing and that DH will leave you alone about wanting to do it himself!
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