July 2015 Babies from The Lucky Thread #5

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Re: July 2015 Babies from The Lucky Thread #5

Postby klj921 » Fri Mar 20, 2015 2:36 pm

I'm so glad to be out of the freezing temps! They're calling for flurries on Sunday but I don't think it'll happen. I'd take a thunderstorm over more snow. We get our fair share of storms over here living in tornado alley but I've been fortunate enough to have never been in a tornado. The town I grew up in was hit several years ago after we moved from it.
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Postby tryingnumber3 » Fri Mar 20, 2015 4:16 pm

We saw 4 houses today. All decent to nice, but in bad locations. So the search continues.

Glad the weather is good kathy! Sounds like you girls had fun!

Aww becca, but its probably a blessing in disguise.
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Re: July 2015 Babies from The Lucky Thread #5

Postby klj921 » Sat Mar 21, 2015 11:25 pm

It's 130AM. My husband has been out drinking since 9 last night. I called him at 1145pm to ask him to please come home and help me put my daughter to sleep because I was exhausted and she would not sleep. He said he'd be home in 10 minutes. This really bothers me. The bar is not even a mile down the road so I don't fear that he got into an accident. I think he just has no self control. And Yay he's already got plans to go out drinking again next weekend with his coworkers that he claims to hate.
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Re: July 2015 Babies from The Lucky Thread #5

Postby klj921 » Sun Mar 22, 2015 9:09 am

Last night was bad. He came home when the bar closed smelling awful of booze and cigarettes. He laid down in bed with me and our 2 year old and I made him get out because I know it's not healthy to breathe that in. He then decided to get in the car after 5 hours of drinking and drive the 2 hours back to our house. (I'm at my mom's. We were supposed to spend the night to celebrate my brothers birthday tomorrow). So I was up crying until 5am and idk how to deal with it
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Re: July 2015 Babies from The Lucky Thread #5

Postby tryingnumber3 » Sun Mar 22, 2015 9:30 am

Aww kathy. So sorry you had a rough night! That was really inconsiderate of him to be doing that and then try to sleep next to you guys reeking. I hope he snaps out of it soon! At least you are at your moms and with your family. Try to forget about him today and have fun with your family.
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Postby BeeCee33 » Sun Mar 22, 2015 1:41 pm

Oh Kathy :( That is absolutely unacceptable. I'd have a chat with him when he's good and sober about what's important in his life and tell him to grow up and act like a responsible husband and father!
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Re: July 2015 Babies from The Lucky Thread #5

Postby klj921 » Sun Mar 22, 2015 6:25 pm

He came back in the morning and apologized (freshly showered and sober) but I told him that kind of stuff cannot happen! He use to do that the last time I was pregnant and I really thought he'd be different this time. I hope he learned from this experience and things will be better now.
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Postby BeeCee33 » Sun Mar 22, 2015 6:28 pm

Seriously! Glad he got his act together. Hopefully he remembers!
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Postby klj921 » Sun Mar 22, 2015 7:30 pm

Thanks! I was so upset last night. It felt like the end of the world. I'll sleep amazing tonight!
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Postby tryingnumber3 » Sun Mar 22, 2015 8:59 pm

Glad he apologized. Hopefully he reslizes he messed up and is extra nice to you this week!
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Re: July 2015 Babies from The Lucky Thread #5

Postby klj921 » Mon Mar 23, 2015 3:06 am

I hope he doesn't plan on going out Saturday still. That just seems like nothing good could come from it at this point. Woke up super early this morning with the worst gas pains. It's radiating into my back. I'd almost fear that it's contractions but it's a constant pain, not coming in intervals. Just a fun pregnancy side effect I guess
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Re: July 2015 Babies from The Lucky Thread #5

Postby tryingnumber3 » Mon Mar 23, 2015 7:40 am

I have been getting a weird pain kinda like that too! Mostly at night. I had talked to a nurse in the ob office about it and she said it's likely from indegestion and to take tums. It helps the pain some for me.
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Re: July 2015 Babies from The Lucky Thread #5

Postby BeeCee33 » Mon Mar 23, 2015 6:42 pm

Got some promising news today! I almost got on here to complain this morning because we're seeing the effect of me leaving my one job and we have our big bills due in the next few days and will have to dip into our savings to cover them. I was starting to feel panicky, so I went and had a good cry, said a prayer, and left it at that.

Not one hour later, Russ's old boss (the cool one, not the one that lost everything) called and invited us to go look at a building to potentially reopen the business in.

The building looks good, if they can agree on a price, but the best news is that his boss wants to start small and SOON with just him, Russ, and their financial backer. That means instead of waiting a year for them to build this huge dealership, Russ will have a job (and a raise!) as soon as they can get a building leased and his boss can get a business lisence. We're now looking at weeks, or possibly a couple more months, instead of 8 months or a year. And best of all, we'll get to stay here!

It's not done yet, but we're seeing the light at the end of the tunnel!
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Re: July 2015 Babies from The Lucky Thread #5

Postby klj921 » Mon Mar 23, 2015 7:05 pm

That's fantastic Becca! So so happy for you!!
Scot stayed home with me from work today because my pain was so intense. I finally was able to fall asleep and that helped. I'm glad he was here though, I definitely didn't know how I'd get Jadyn up when my body was in so much pain. I think it is an acid issue for the most part and slowed digestion so it's just agonizing as it travels through my system. My stomach was rock hard but the shower eased that. Praying for no repeats tonight
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Re: July 2015 Babies from The Lucky Thread #5

Postby BeeCee33 » Mon Mar 23, 2015 7:20 pm

Aw, sorry you've been feeling so miserable. I know I've mentioned them before, but my two go-to treatments for all things digestion related are Activia brand yogurt (loaded with several probiotics to keep things processing) and Zantac to help with the acid. I was scraping along with Tums for about a month before some ladies on here who were further along turned me on to Zantac and it works SO much better than Tums!
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