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CONTROL vs Letting Go

As for me.....
I've never had a problem getting pregnant. I've seen friends struggle and have miscarriages. I've cried with them and prayed for them. I've witnessed miracles. This time I'm learning that its never been in my hands that when I say God is sovereign that I have to be willing to be tested in this area and God is sovereign. As a women.. I struggle with trying to control my hubby, my kids and yes even the dog. I want this picture perfect life that is not reality and God is teaching me to let it Go! His ways are better than my ways and He is working all things out in my life for good! In order to cast my cares at His feet I have to humble myself under His mighty hand, but if in trying to be in control then I'm relying on myself to get things done. I get frustrated and angry when they don't happen. I've walked through the dark valley of adultery that hurt so bad I could barely breathe but tasted the goodness of God through forgiveness and redemption. I'm still learning and wrestling with His truth but I've tasted and seen that God is good! He is for me and not against me! I wrestle with the world, my flesh and the devil. God has a rescue plan for all of us through His precious Son, Jesus. Who willingly laid His life down for ours. Trust Him... He's good and want to give us the desires of our hearts when we delight and find life in Him. So... Here's to stepping in to the rest of my childbearing years trusting Him, His perfect will and perfect timing. Children are a blessing but they aren't for making us happy. That's being selfish. Our "hearts are restless until they rest in Him" -Augustine
No spouse, child, animal, friend, substance can fill the God sized hole in each of us. We are all made in His image. We are so precious to Him. Let go of the control and find His presence in the present. In the now, today!
Blessings in Christ. I pray more than babies that each of you will taste and see that He is good! Choose today who you will serve for me... I'm letting go of control.

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Thank you for sharing this so eloquently...it's exactly what I needed tonight. I can relate to so much of what you said, especially about wanting to have control and being frustrated and angry when things don't work out as planned. I too have chosen that beautiful gift of life through our precious Savior and Lord, Jesus Christ and I know that His ways are not my ways and yet I still try to force my ways onto Him...even though I know it will never work.

He is so loving and patient with me and I'm so grateful for that. I want to let go as well and I pray He gives me the strength and courage to do just that.

Thank you for sharing this.

hi everyone. I have been trying to get pregnant for the
past years with failure. I'm not on any contraceptive and my
periods are regular. I'm now frustrated and I have seen people giving
testimonials on how much ASHRA SPELL TEMPLE helped them. with pregnancy spell and other wonderful things so i decided to give a try , i contacted ASHRA OF ASHRA SPELL TEMPLE AND TO CUT THE STORY SHORT AFTER I DID CONTACT ASHRA A PREGNANCY AND A CLEANSE SPELL WAS DONE AND NOW I CAN PROUDLY SAY MY BABY IS 22WEEKS OLD TODAY, you can contact ashra on email via:ashraspelltemple@gmail.com or call +2348058176311

Thanks

hi everyone. I have been trying to get pregnant for the
past years with failure. I'm not on any contraceptive and my
periods are regular. I'm now frustrated and I have seen people giving
testimonials on how much ASHRA SPELL TEMPLE helped them. with pregnancy spell and other wonderful things so i decided to give a try , i contacted ASHRA OF ASHRA SPELL TEMPLE AND TO CUT THE STORY SHORT AFTER I DID CONTACT ASHRA A PREGNANCY AND A CLEANSE SPELL WAS DONE AND NOW I CAN PROUDLY SAY MY BABY IS 22WEEKS OLD TODAY, you can contact ashra on email via:ashraspelltemple@gmail.com or call +2348058176311

Thanks

I appreciate you for sharing this. I struggle with similar issues and it feela good to read the encouragement and GODLY words. GOD bless you

Thank you I need that. I've been ttc for 17 months now. I took a Break for a few months because it was driving me crazy! I know God has blessed my husband and I so much and I'm know He has a plan for us. But it's just so hard especially when everyone around us are having babies. To see my husband face light up when he holds them it hurts because I know he wants a child so bad. I need to be faithful in his plan for us. Gods perfect time.

Ashra is a manipulating and according to him provides black magic. He leads you to believe he can help until you run out if money.
Pray to god and don't be manipulating as I were fooled by his false pretense. I am an educated woman and was manipulated when I was most vulnerable