What I think might have made a difference for me in my BFP cycle: * I've been eating more protein, including some fish (I'd been vegetarian for 18 years, so this was WEIRD and difficult, but I figured it was worth a try). * Almost no soy. * Eli/Weagan's B-vitamin/Vitex cocktail (NOT for everyone I know, but good for me b/c of my short LP, late ovulation, and other issues). * Cut way back on exercise after O--I usually work out 5-6 days a week for an hour, plus I bike to and from work. This month I just biked to/from work, no lunchtime workouts. * I stopped drinking altogether a couple months ago--I used to drink up until O, or a few days after O. But I read a couple things that suggested that alcohol, even in moderation, can lower fertility in some people...at this point I need all the help I can get, so I cut it out. It was hard for me at first, but it's actually great now, and I'm sleeping better. I was resistant to this b/c I felt like cutting out all drinking would make me more aware of TTC, acting as if I were already pg, put more pressure on me--but I'm aware of it all the time anyway, so....And I did decided to have a beer or glass of wine each time I got my period (but that's it). * Acupuncture every 2 weeks plus Chinese herbs * Had lots of sex around ovulation, recommended by a friend of mine (who has no kids, but two of her friends, who are our age, didn't get pg for a couple years, then one cycle tried the sex-fest, and it worked)--I know it goes against most doctors' advice, since sperm doesn't get to build up, but...it seemed to work for us * I didn't temp after O, which made me less stressed in 2ww.