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Confused 0.o need advice

Postby GrimmPanda » Mon Jan 15, 2018 9:31 pm

So a little background.. my husband and I (23 and 22) have been trying to conceive for a year now and that is kind of a while to be trying at our age but I have never suspected a positive and have never confirmed a positive test. This month has been confusing and really weird. I had my AF on time but it was really light and that is unusual then 4 days after the end of my period i spotted pink and every day after I have had light cramping in my uterus. On top of that I found myself nauseated off and on and emotional for no reason and my husband pointed out at dinner the other night that it is weird to eat grilled salmon on banana foster french toast. I took a test and got a negative but i have 2 weeks till next period. Confused please help.
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Re: Confused 0.o need advice

Postby Kaylaw1986 » Tue Jan 16, 2018 9:12 am

When you say that your period was different what exactly do you mean? Same amount of days as usual? Lighter in terms of pad or tampons needed? It could have just been an unusual cycle or it could be that you ovulated late in that cycle so you didn’t have enough of the hormones to stop a period. Hard to know for sure unless you get a positive test or the next period. Keep us posted!
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Re: Confused 0.o need advice

Postby rozianaa » Mon Jul 09, 2018 11:24 pm

hi, Don't take the stress. Don't overthink. All will be fine. Stay positive and happy. Think positive all will be fine sweetheart. Don't lose hope. Go for the checkup. Consult a good doctor. He might be able to guide you in the much better way. My sister was going through the same condition. She visited a clinic in Europe. All was sorted soon. My best wishes are with you. Surround yourself with those who make you happy. All the very best. My prayers are with you. Lots of love.
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Re: Confused 0.o need advice

Postby emmajoe303 » Tue Jul 10, 2018 12:39 am

Hello My Dear, Hope you are doing well and living like a superman. :) All will be fine. Remain positive and cheerful. Think positive all will be fine sweetheart. Try not to lose trust. Go for the checkup. Counsel a decent specialist. He may have the capacity to direct you in the greatly improved way. After the marriage We decide continuous abortion for five year. When we want to have a baby that time doctors said that I am Infertile. This news was a sudden attack on me and my husband. My husband was worried about me. He said to me for surrogacy. We searched for the best clinics in the world. After one month we decide the Ukraine Bio-Tex-Com and enjoyed their best service. Now I have my own lovely baby. So at the end. I would like to say something to those women who are facing infertility. They should visit the Ukraine clinic Bio_Tex_Com. Best wishes for you. My love is always with you.
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Re: Confused 0.o need advice

Postby bella28 » Tue Jul 10, 2018 6:44 am

Hi there. Hope you are doing well. It's really confusing. Symptoms show that you are pregnant. But the test was negative. You should go for another test. I hope everything will get settled. You can easily get pregnant. You are quite young. So no worries. So stay hopeful. Discuss your issues with an expert. Wish luck to you. God bless you.
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Re: Confused 0.o need advice

Postby joan1234 » Tue Jul 10, 2018 7:06 am

At this moment, your well being is very important. Both your mental and physical states must be completely fit. For that, you need to have a proper diet. Do not miss meals. Take vitamins regularly. Do not stress yourself. You can also talk to the doctors about having fertility tests. Wishing you a lot of luck.
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Re: Confused 0.o need advice

Postby Hania » Tue Jul 10, 2018 7:29 am

Hey Emmajoe, hope all will be doing good there. I am very sorry about your condition. I will suggest you that. You have to remain strong and brave. If you take stress it will badly affect your health. You have to survive with it. You have to face the life. And all the hurdles are the part of life. So do not need to take the stress. You need relaxation. I will also suggest to you that you have to discuss it with the best doctor. I will guide you that there is the best team is going to the UK. they will consult with the people on 18 and 19 of August. You should take an appointment with them. I am very hopeful that you will be guided very good. Wish you good luck.
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Re: Confused 0.o need advice

Postby Hania » Tue Jul 10, 2018 7:30 am

Dear Emmajoe. No need to worry at all. You are such a strong lady. I am very happy that you are here on this platform. I am sure you will get the best suggestions. I am also a regular visitor of this website. I am very conscious in my routine. I will also suggest you take your healthy diet good. You have to make attention to your routine. When you started to care. Then you should go to the best clinic. If you discuss it with the doctor you will get the best advise. So you need to consult the best doctors. There is the best team going to the UK on 18 and 19 of August. I think you can easily consult them. I will be praying for you. Hope you will be blessed with a child soon.
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Re: Confused 0.o need advice

Postby hannahdavid » Sun Nov 18, 2018 9:34 am

If you have been trying for a year I think its time to visit a fertility specialist. This is because the doctor will really know where the issue lies. The symptoms you are talking about could be a factor of many reasons. This is because when we are trying for a very long time we do get to go through certain psychological symptoms as well. However, I can't say much from the little information. After 2WW I would suggest you visit a doctor for your blood tests. These will then help by giving you all the answers. However, specialists and doctors at a good clinic will really help you out. Just research well before visiting. I am saying that because of my own experience. I always tell people that my experience is going well because of the clinic and my research. Good luck to you. Don't take too much of stress! I am sure things will get better. Sending baby dust your way.
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Re: Confused 0.o need advice

Postby beckybenson » Fri Nov 23, 2018 1:55 am

Hello. The symptom does seem like you might be pregnant. But it could also be a false alarm. The best thing you can do right now is not getting your hopes high. Distract yourself and wait a while. If you are pregnant you'll know. If not, you'll get your period. Don't stress yourself during this. There isn't much that you can do here.
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Re: Confused 0.o need advice

Postby AmySmith » Tue Dec 11, 2018 11:26 am

Hey, there. There can be a lot of possibilities, regarding this. I'd say don't get your hopes up without any reason. Good luck to you. Just make sure you check in with the doctor. A professional opinion goes a long way. My prayers are with you. Hope everything is positive.
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Re: Confused 0.o need advice

Postby AlyssaMiller » Wed Dec 19, 2018 8:24 am

Hey there! I hope you are feeling better now. You both are very young and it has only been a year so don't worry. Don't stress over it, stress can have a bad impact on your body. You need to keep your body healthy and active at this time. I will recommend you to go to a clinic and get yourself tested. It's important to know what is stopping you from this. Sometimes there are very little things which can cause a big problem later so it's always good to get yourself tested asap. Maybe the doctor will be able to help you out here. Just make sure the clinic you are going to has experienced staff. It's important to have a clinic with a high success rate. Stay blessed! Everything will be fine. Good Luck!
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Re: Confused 0.o need advice

Postby PatriciaLee » Fri Jan 04, 2019 2:55 pm

Hi Panda! You both are so young. Why you are so worried? You have a long way to go. You have started trying one year ago, i m trying from last 6 years and still not so much confused like you. You need to calm down. Relax, everything will be fine. So first of all, visit a good clinic asap, get yourself tested. It will help you find out about the background of this problem. Then there are many options out there for you to consider. IVF, IUI, Surrogacy, all three treatments are very successful. But it really depends on your condition, which treatment suits you. I have recently started my IVF at this clinic abroad, the reason why I chose this clinic so far away from home is that of its success rate. The success rate of the clinic you are opting for affects your success rate of treatment. So make sure you are going to a successful clinic. Good luck. Stay blessed.
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Re: Confused 0.o need advice

Postby EstrellaS » Thu Feb 28, 2019 9:35 am

It's hopefully nothing. I can't really predict what it could be. The information isn't sufficient. I want to wish you the best of luck. I would personally suggest visiting your doctor. He could help you out. Good luck to you, honey!
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